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October 16, 2013

上海自拍全裸女 有人夸艺术有人斥败俗

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上海自拍全裸女 有人夸艺术有人斥败俗

星期六, 十月 12, 2013

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综合讯,日前一组名为“魔都裸拍事件”系列照片在网络疯传,一名身材姣好的年轻美眉于夜深人静之际,于中国上海3个地标:外滩、新天地与衡山路上掀起裙子“裸拍”,全裸尺度超大、路人经过也无所谓。有网友骂她伤风败俗,也有人认为是艺术;11日网络出现疑似女主角所发声明,由于照片脸部经马赛克、身分无法确认,目前警方已经介入调查。
连续数周,网络上出现3个版本、疑似同一女主角的系列裸拍:首先出现在入夜后的衡山路,穿着灰色开襟长版外衣、扎马尾、没穿胸罩的年轻女子,一会儿双手在背后交叉、轻倚衡山路标杆,接着轻解罗衫露出白皙胴体,或是背靠树干、坐在路旁阶梯岔开大腿;同样的搔首弄姿,数天后又“跨区”现身网络,背景改为外滩与新天地,东方明珠电视塔也入了镜,她则换上黑色细肩带洋装,一把撩起到脖子。女主角脸部都上了马赛克。
有网友怒斥裸拍妹“伤风败俗”,也有网友认为照片中“娇嗔气息展露无遗”,是名副其实的艺术行为。
据劳动报11日报导,“上海闹市裸拍门”疑似当事人发道歉声明,@Kenny_McCormick自称是在国外念书的人体摄影爱好者,照片原置于私人论坛却遭人转载,当初在上海拍摄时是一种“赌气”,是对传统与道德观的挑战,却不希望引起风波。

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July 18, 2012

误撞法网,曲折80天。。

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Image身陷新加坡整整80天,终于可以回家了。面对镜头,谭丽脸上露出久违的笑容。

误撞法网,曲折80

李叶明/文(特约>



谭丽是一名来自中国的旅聘爱好足迹遍布菲律宾、柬埔寨、越南、;来西亚等多个东南亚国家。谁知今年;人新年除夕,一次快乐的出行竟然变s梦魇,

令她在新加坡坐了一个多月的牢。

今年春节前夕,她与定居印度尼西亚的好友相约,去崙厘岛玩浮潜。

这样的自助旅行对渾丽不是第一次。她很快订好机桌,选择搭乘廉价航空经新加坡转机,先到雅加达与好友小聚两日,再一起飞往峑厘岛。

年除夕下午,谭丽乘坐虎航班机抵达新加坡樟宜机场。她在机场大厦内没有发现转机柜台和标志,当时感觉有些疑惑。随着人流走到人境柜台,她向柜台官员出示护照。官员向她要签证,她说自己只是在这儿转机,没有办释新加坡签证。

事实上,她也有办理印尼签证。因为印尼友人告诉谭丽,她可以到雅加达机场办理落地签证。

那位官员听诨丽说没有签证,就叫来一名警察。谭丽被带到一个玻璃房, 开始接受盘问。谭丽再次解释,因为只是转机,目的地是雅加达,所以没有办理签证。她还向警察展示了装满浮潜工具的背包和她办的旅游保险。

后来一位高级警官进来了解情况。之 后拿走她的^照,让她在房间内等候。

她一个人一等就一个半小时,又饿、又渴,又很想去厕所,她更急于想知道,自己还能不能续程前往雅加达。可玻璃门是锁住的。她试图通过墙上的对讲机呼叫,却无人回答。

后来终于有人开门,让她上了厕所。之后她看见那位髙级聱官, 于是上前询问处理结果。对方向她出示”拒绝入境通知”,然后挥手让她回房间等候。这下谭丽傻了眼,忍不住哭了起来。

这时,一位女性华族官员走过来询问情况。谭丽连忙解释。对方问她是否有亲戚在新加加坡。她说没有。

廉价航空终站不提供转机

后来她知道,新加坡樟宜机场有四个航站楼^她所在的是专门给廉价航空运营的终站,是唯一不提供内部转机的。因此她

须先出关,再入关,所以要有签证。

有好友现在印尼,是印尼永久居民。那位女官员表示要帮她,让她拨电给印尼朋’ 友,求证中国公民在雅加达办落地签之事。随后她带谭丽去见拒绝她入境的高级謇官。可对方说印尼朋友不是印尼官员不算,除非虎航提供书面文件。于是谭丽被交给另一位警察,过后被带出候机楼。

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当时是下午5点,谭丽以为自己被’允许登机了。就在这时,一辆看似囚车的黄色面包车开来。潭丽被要求上车, 说是转往另一处”办公室”。谭丽回忆说,当时她本能地向后退,不愿上车。在挣扎中那名辅警在另一位女性同事的帮助下,抓住她进车里。

大约两小时后,又来了几名警察跟. 她谈话,告诉她”惹麻烦了”,因为在挣扎中踢伤政府人员,她因此被捕。

春节之际身陷囹圄

就在万家团圆欢度春节之际,谭丽身陷囹圄,在举目无亲的新加坡过起了铁窗生活。

法庭时,谭丽被允许打一通室内电话。可要拨给谁呢?她只好要求打给中国驻新加坡大使馆。可谁知,大使馆当时正放长假过年,电话一直无人接听。而在印尼的朋友一直等不到她,于是四处打电话找她,并确定她是在新加坡”失踪”的。

锒铛人狱的谭丽怎么也想不通,一次快乐的出行,为什么会变成这个样子。她完全无法接受这个事实,

甚至一度想要自杀。当时狱友见她终日以泪洗面,便纷纷开导她。谭丽才慢慢回过神来,如果当时自己没有挣扎,那么最多是被遣返,不会闹到在监牢里过年这么惨。

一个星期后,潭丽终于打通使馆的电话。使馆人员帮她通知家人。在印尼的朋友也终于知道她的具体下落,专程飞来新加坡探监。后来谭丽的家人千方百计找到一位熟识的新加坡人,他愿意出面担保并找律师替她打官司。

终于在坐牢34天后,谭丽得以取保候审。

80天经历感慨万干

采访谭丽时,她”身陷”新加坡整整八十天。当天是她在狮城的最后一天。她终于可以回家了。面对镜头,她脸上露出久违的笑容。

在新加坡打官司,十分昂贵。单律

师费就花掉她2万新元。出狱后,她为打官司在新加坡暂住的开销也不小。

官司的进展也出人意料。由于谭丽坚持自己没有”故意攻击”,她的代表律师决定写信给,^检察长陈情。在详细陈述事发经过后,律师表示:整起事件是因为困惑和缺乏沟通导致;当事人有良好的学历和职业,是旅游爱好者,从来没有前科。,

果然,控状后来被撤销。潭丽很快拿回护照,准备回国。当然,她也拿到一份警告信。回顾这80天经历,她感慨万千,反省自己以后出国,一定要仔细收集资料。如果早知道新加坡廉价终站不能转机,就不会有麻烦了。

您对谭丽的经历有什么看法,请电邮到zbxhd@sph.com.sg或发送手机短讯至81289296。 •

联合早报 2012年7 月 9 日


对谭丽经历的反思与感想

2012 79日联合早报的李叶明特约搞里,读到一位中国背包旅游爱好者谭丽,她在新加坡廉价航空终站的遭遇,令我感慨万千。。她自个背包旅行经过许多落后国家都平安无事,却在我们这算是发达国家出事了。。我这么强调的意思是说,发生过严谨的事应该严办,而这在清楚押明没有前科,又因为困惑和缺乏国家文化,语言沟通上导致和官员出现了问题的谭丽,官人却不够伸缩性处理的做法令人感到有点失望。在发现到她不是什么危险人物时,是否应该提供一些帮助?

很明显的,谭丽是慌张之中本能踢了官人一脚,不管这是有意或者是无意。所以她惹来了牢房之铁窗味。。正如她所说,如果早知道新加坡廉价终站不能转机,就不会有麻烦了,而她所在的是专门给廉价航空运营的终站,是唯一不提供内部转机的。因此她必先出关,再入关,所以要有签证。

我也是旅游爱好者。但换着是我,肯定也如此遭遇。。

我到过一些需要出境再入关转机的国家,一下飞机,不是囚车等着我们,而是一辆豪华巴士等候我们,然后载送我们另一个入关口,心里感觉是温馨温暖的。。为何我们服务第一的机场不能?

June 14, 2012

全 国 气 愤 ( 福建省南平市)

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全 国 气 愤 ( 福建省南平市)

传自中国空姐QQ空间

 

福建省南平市育德中学一高三考生张德临考前发现忘记带准考证,于是回宿舍拿而迟到3分钟。被监考老师阻止进入考场,被逼无奈,过于压抑、3年寒窗苦读一成落空,当场跳楼自杀. 。

当时,在场人员过百却无一人报警、只是围观、学校门口的医院救护车却迟来了十多分钟,该监考老师恼羞成怒甚至开私家车碾压尸体!

请问学校的老师和领导都是白 痴吗他们都有人性吗?

有良心的请自觉转.发。请大家都转转,一起为张德同学讨回公道。张德同学天堂的路一路走好。

不会转,会脏了你的空间对吗?如果有心,痛恨请转发!只为求一个公道!!

QQ 心情 雨亦晴说:

如果死的那个是他孩子,他还会开车碾压吗? :那老师好变态!!!

传自空姐QQ空间

June 9, 2012

The passing of Dr Lim Hock Siew

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Dear Editor,   

 
I am saddened to read the news of the passing of Dr Lim Hock Siew. Nevertheless, I am glad that the Straits Times carried a decent report of his demise,  “Barisan Socialis leader dies” (ST 6 June), which would at least remind Singaporeans of pioneer political leaders who had fought for Singapore’s independence and argued for a different political vision.
 
As a young lad in the 1960s, I first heard about Dr. Lim from my father who spoke highly of him and his political conviction. My father used to share a stall with Dr Lim’s dad, selling fish at the old Tekka Market. Like most people working in the market, my dad did not have the opportunity to attend school. But he was impressed with Dr Lim’s academic progress and achievement. More than that, my dad respected Dr Lim for his political conviction and his genuine care for the poor, for example, seen in the low-cost medical treatment that he gave to those who consulted him in his clinic at Balestier Road. Needless to say, like many poor, and usually less-educated people, my dad and mum went to his clinic whenever they needed medical care.
 
It is a tragedy that he had to be detained in prison without trial for almost 20 years. One day, I hope, his side of the story will be given a fairer hearing, and a respected academic will write a properly researched book of the contribution of political leaders like him. It speaks volume of his character that in spite of his incarceration, he kept his conviction and stood his grounds; qualities which people who aspire to political office should have. One may disagree with his political ideology, but he will be respected by those who know him as a politician who loved his country and cared deeply for the cause of the poor.
 
Daniel Koh Kah Soon

‘Dead’ boy sits up in coffin, asks for water and dies again in Brazil

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.. ‘Dead’ boy sits up in coffin, asks for water and dies again in Brazil

By ANI | ANI – Thu, Jun 7, 2012.. .

Melbourne, June 7 (ANI): A two-year-old Brazilian boy, who was declared dead, sat up in his coffin and asked for water before laying back down again lifeless. According to Website ORM, Kelvin Santos stopped breathing during treatment for pneumonia at a hospital in Belem, northern Brazil, News.com.au reported. The boy was declared dead at 7.40pm on Friday and his body was handed over to his family in a plastic bag. The child’s devastated family took him home where grieving relatives held a wake throughout the night as the boy’s body laid in an open coffin. But just an hour before his funeral was to take place on Saturday, the boy apparently sat up in his coffin and said asked his father for water. “Daddy, can I have some water,” the child said. “Everybody started to scream, we couldn’t believe our eyes. Then we thought a miracle had taken place and our boy had come back to life,” the boy’s father, Antonio Santos said. “Then Kelvin just laid back down, the way he was. We couldn’t wake him. He was dead again….. Mr Santos rushed his son back to the Aberlardo Santos hospital in Belem,where the doctors reexamined the boy and confirmed that he had no signs of life. “They assured me that he really was dead and gave me no explanation for what we had just seen and heard,” Santos said. The boy’s family decided to delay the funeral for an hour hoping that he would wake up again, but ended up burying him at 5 pm the same day in a local cemetery. Santos, who is convinced that his son was victim of medical malpractice, has now registered a complaint with the police who have launched an investigation. “Fifteen minutes after rushing him away for resuscitation, they came and told me he was dead and handed me his body. Perhaps they didn’t examine him properly. Dead people don’t just wake up and talk. I’m determined to find out the truth,” Santos said. (ANI) ..

May 29, 2012

再见妈妈 Good Bye ,Mom..

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妈妈再见

15-April 2011

Hi everybody, i would like to say a few words to remember my mother.

Koh Ai Tee, my mom was a kind hearted and brave lady. She would love me and my father, always putting ahead our needs over hers. She is selfless to the point where she’ll rather suffer, be insulted or misunderstood for her good intentions.
She has a brave heart. I remember the story told by my dad about this one time when they were on holiday in Sweden. A big-sized American man threatened dad and mocked him thinking he was a Japanese soldier. Small sized as she was, mom rushed to my dad’s defiance and used her head to butt the fellow’s chest. My father will always recount that story as an example of how mom would put everybody’s need ahead of herself.

My mother is a faithful Christian. For her physically weak body, she makes up by having a tough and strong mentality. On top of that, she places so much faith and hope in God. Through the course of the past year, mother underwent so much injections, chemotherapy, radiology and different drug change. Strong as she was, her body is still very human, and a physical body is so very limited in this temporal world.

Mother often wondered what lesson is God trying to teach her? Could it be she hasn’t been a good witness to her faith? At her darkest moment, i remember seeing her cry out “My God has disappeared, my God has disappeared.” That was very heartbreaking for dad and I. And yet after a while, mom would have willed herself and absolutely convinced herself that God is in control. Jesus loves her. And then we would hum the children song. “Jesus loves all the children, all the children in the world….” A simple children hymn, which is my mom, always childlike, always faithful. When she was slipping in and out of consciousness, father whispered to her “Do you know i love you a lot, a lot?” She said “You don’t even have to say it, I already know, but love God first then me and Wei.” She said that during her most difficult moments. I often wonder where she gets her faith from. Her anguish and pain is very real, but friends, so is her faith. Right to the end.

I am thankful that God allowed us enough time to say our goodbyes, twice in fact. When she was last warded, and doctors told us we only have a few weeks left. Since then, i have had heart-to-heart conversations with mom. This was something hard to do in an Asian culture. Where love is not outwardly expressed. Yet it is very important to say the words that matter. So I had an idea, to write letters to mom in a journal, she would write me back. To and fro, our correspondence nearly filled an entire book.

All through my adult life, i never really allowed my parents to fully participate in my search for my identity, and purpose in life. A struggle with my faith is also something very personal and i would wrestle my own demons and deliberately exclude my parents from the process. How i grow in the Lord is also a different experience as what my mom and dad went through. Although so, they’ve always taken little bits and pieces of time to show me how God has been gracious and good to our family since young. Mother said she has been praying for me even I was born. She prayed for her future husband, and God sent her my dad.

I have been placed in such a loving family who gives me the space to grow, to make my own mistakes and learn from them. God says “I am love.” But what does that mean for us? And then i look at Dad and Mom’s unfailing care and love for each other and i am convinced there is no better place for me to learn that than here, with Dad and Mom.

Mom would encourage me to talk to God about every little thing. She said that she always prayed for my future wife. And so, time will tell how that turns out.

I am thankful that i get to promise my mother that i will never let go of my faith, though we all have our own disillusions with Christianity and in God every once so often, i assured her that i will always remember my roots. Brothers, sisters and friends, people that i love, and who love me back, i am also counting on you to hold me to that promise.

I am thankful that i get to hug my mother, kiss my mother, hold her hands and tell her that i love her and even though she said not to be sad and to miss her, Dad and I will miss her very much.

God is good, even through our darkest moments; he has sent countless friends to support us. For food, for companionship, for heart-to-heart conversations. We have never been in want. You know individually who you are. My father and I are very thankful. Perhaps a reminder that God does not only exist in church, along the pews or over communion. Our God is an infinite God who is in the big things right down to the tiniest details. Your care and concern is one of those. God is also evident in my mom’s life. Her selflessness, love and gentle heart. There is still good in this world, it is with a heavy heart to say that my father and I have lost one of those who are good, and is beautiful today.

Thank you all for listening.

 

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再见,妈妈。。

 

嗨,大家好,我想讲几句话,记念我的母亲。( 15/4/2011)

许爱治,是我的妈妈。她是一个善良和勇敢的妈妈。她爱我和我的父亲,她始终都满足供应我们的需要。她是无私的,她宁愿受苦,被侮辱或被人误解了她的好意。


她有一颗勇敢善良的心。我记得爸爸告诉我一个故事,当他们在瑞典度假时,一个高大的美国男子威胁着父亲,并嘲笑他,认为他是一个二战战败日本兵的后代。。瘦小的妈妈,感觉到我爸被蔑视,用她的头对准那家伙的胸部撞去。。我的父亲经常总是会述说这个故事,说妈妈如何把我们的需要胜过于她自己的需要。。

我的母亲是一位虔诚的基督徒。她的身体虽然虚弱瘦小,但是她面对艰难的事时,有着强大的心态和意志力。最重要的是,她把自己的信仰和对上帝的盼望,通过对过去一年的过程中,都充份的表现 出来。。母亲病时经历了这么多的注射,化疗,放射和对着不同的药物影响变化,她的身体已是受不了。。。但因为她凭着是强大的意志,那是人性化和一个肉体在这个时空世界是非常有限的。。她最后差点崩溃!

爸对我说,母亲经常在想,是上帝试图对她有什么教训?道是她一直没有一个很好的见证和信心不够?在她最黑暗的时刻,我记得我看到她哭了,“ 我的上帝已经消失,已经消失了,我的上帝你在哪里?。。”这是很心痛的一段时刻,爸爸和妈妈会任性绝对相信自己是在神控制中。。因为耶稣爱她。然后我们会一起哼唱妈喜欢的儿歌: 耶稣爱世界上所有的孩子,所有的孩子……”这是一首简单的儿童赞美歌。。这就是我的妈妈。她总是很孩子气,她总是很忠实。。当她的意识和体力开始滑落时,父亲低声对她的        “你知道我爱你很多,很多吗?”她说:“你不说出来,我已经知道,但要爱上帝,然后才爱我和阿威。。”这是在她最困难的时刻所说的话。。我常想,在那里她得到了她信仰的保证。她的痛苦是非常真实的,但是,朋友们,这是她坚持的信仰。。一直到她生命的结束。。。

我感谢上帝让我们有足够的时间向妈妈说再见,在她最后一次入院时,医生告诉我们,妈妈只有几个星期的生命了。。从那时起,我和妈妈开始心以心的交谈。。这是亚洲文化的东西很难做到的。然而在这个时候如果我爱妈妈而又不能向妈妈表示的话。。再不说的话,是永远再也没机会了。。时间是非常紧急的。所以我有一个想法,写日记,用册子,和笔写信给妈妈,她也写回信给我。。来来回回,我们的信件几乎占满了整本书。。

在所有通过我生命成长的岁月过程中,我从来没有真正应许让我的父母充分参与我的生活,和让他们知道我倒底在做些什么,或知道我对生命的目的和意义何在。。我对信仰的斗争也是很个人的东西,我把自己的人生当为是一个与恶魔搏斗的过程,我刻意地排除我的父母。。我如何在主的成长也是我爸爸和妈妈经历了不同的人生经验所影响。虽然如此,他们一直采取忍耐,低调,和让时间来证明给我看,看神怎样以爱和恩典建立我们的家庭。。母亲说,她一直为我祈祷,即使我出生那个时刻,她已开始为我祷告。。她也说她那个时候一直祈祷为着她未来的丈夫。。而上帝后来把她送给了我的爸爸。。

我其实已被上帝放置在这样一个充满爱的家庭,他们给我的成长空间,使我看到自己的错误,并从他们身上学到许多的事物。。上帝说“我就是爱。”但是,那是什么意思?是对我们吗?然而我看着爸爸和妈妈始终如一的互相关怀和对彼此的爱,我相信我没有更好的地方可以学习得到,只在这里,在爸爸和妈妈的身上。。。

妈妈常常鼓励我谈论神如何在我身上所行的每一件小事。她说,她总是对我未来的妻子祈祷。等等,时间会告诉我神将来如何在我人生道路上去成就祂对我的旨意。。

我很感激上帝,因为我答应我的母亲,我永远不会放弃我的信仰,虽然我们自己有时候对基督教和上帝存有的幻灭的思想,但我向妈妈保证,我会永远记得我们的根,我们是建立在上帝爱的基础上。。还有我亲爱的弟兄们,姐妹和朋友们,我所爱的人,以及爱我的人,我还指望请你们抓我一把,帮我守住这一个承诺。。

我很感激上帝,我得到了母亲的拥抱,亲吻妈妈,握住她的手,告诉她我爱她,即使她对我说,不要难过和想念她,但是爸爸和我会非常想念她的。。。

上帝是好的,甚至通过我们最黑暗的时刻,他已派出无数的朋友来支持我们。不断供应食物,心对心的陪伴着我们谈话。这是我们从来没有想得到 的。你们心里清楚知道我在讲的“你”是谁。。我父亲和我心里都非常感激你们。这也是提醒我们,神不只是存在教堂里,在座位或高高在上的崇拜里。。而是,我们的神是无限的上帝,祂无所不在,从大的事情到最微小的细节。。您们的关心和照顾就是其中之一。上帝在我妈的生活例子中也很明显,她对生活的热爱,无私的爱和温柔的心。在这个世界上虽然仍然有好多好多美好的事物,但是我以一个很沉重的心情对你们说,今天父亲和我已经失去了一个最好的和最美丽妈妈的过去。

谢谢你们耐心的听。

 

莫泽威。  粗糙翻译:莫泰驹2012年六月一日

 

 

 

 

2012年守岁分享

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2012 年 守岁 分享

。。我们爱,因为上帝先爱我们。。

当我回头看看,2009年到今年下半年来,我实在感到惊讶,我不晓得我到底如何有力量走过来的?每天替爱爱打针,每个星期陪爱爱到医院化疗,乘坐救伤车从这个医院到另一间医院去电疗。。奔波于三个不同的医院,治疗三个不同的病。。。老实说,到现在我还是无法接受这个事实。

新的一年带来了新的希望,很多感谢神恩典的事。但是我无法真正感受到这欢乐的气氛,因为我经历人生最痛苦的时刻。亲爱的亲人都离开了人间,患病,消沉,忧郁还是无法离开我。。有时心悲从中来,说,这些快乐不属于我的。。但是神答应,祂的慈爱和信实不会离开个我们。。(希13;5)。不管前面道路如何,不管以往怎么样,祂对我们的计划确实是不变的!
不管是上帝的旨意如何,我决定融合自己的心意而进入上帝的旨意当中。

看过一本书这么写:自怜是信任上帝的大敌,是致命伤。但是当你的勇气从心灵的窗口飞了出去的时候,并且周遭的世界突然变得黑暗阴险时,自怜已变成了一个无法避免的自然反应。如果我拼命压制这个反应,我会让自己心力憔碎。经历告诉我,没有对付自怜的有效方法。我当然可以装作更属灵,伪装着情绪,进入教堂,然而这样子的做法是否认了自己的人性,根本行不通。因为我不是属灵的机器人,而是有血有肉,而且有感性的人。。所以一些弟兄姐妹可能碰过我在他们面前大掉男人的眼泪。失礼!失礼。。虽然说是堂堂男儿眼泪不轻弹。。

然而,我确实知道,自怜会残害我,会毁掉我对上帝的信心,情绪化的时候,我恳求上帝赐恩,限制我自怜的时间,若是有需要,我会好好偷偷的哭一场,接下去我会专注生命中还是有美好的事物,好像那些来探访我的人,我会听到更多的事情,还有那些我的伙伴们。

我要努力不容许自己所发生的一切,心里产生更多的自怜,每天早晨,一点点,掉几滴泪也就够了。。我希望能够做到.

感谢上帝对我们的爱,感谢上帝的恩典,感谢上帝给我们盼望,感谢上帝赐生命中玫瑰有刺,感谢上帝赐生命中有春夏秋冬,感谢上帝祷告不应允,感谢上帝赐下平安喜乐。。感谢上帝赐予弟兄姐妹的爱心 . . 。。
感谢祂直到永永远远,天荒地老。。让我们毫不留情的信任上帝,让我们拒绝以完美的辩才代替自己个人对上帝的委身。。荣耀归于阿爸父神 .

January 20, 2012

我们地铁到底出了什么事?

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地铁慢了,等候时间长长了,早出门时间提早了,回家时间延迟了,人潮多了,地铁频频出问题,连讯号路线也出问题…我们地铁到底出了什么事?來新加坡的福州朋友说:啊?新加坡也会这样啊?我脸上屯时红了起来。…借镜外国地铁出现的问题,理当想到有25年的地铁,得做一趟全面保养和检查。避免出现严重问题而尬…现在出了问题,应该是改进服务的时候了…

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December 26, 2011

令人无奈的事情

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 令人无可奈的事

在报章读到74岁老妇动了心脏手术之几天后逝世的新闻,心中已感到不平衡,再读下去,赫然发现,主刀和受训医生竟然在动完手术之后立即辞职和分别不再当实习医生。我心里感到很挣扎,纳闷和无限感慨。。想不久前,太太卵巢癌去世之前在医院发生的事又是一幕一幕的呈现在脑海里。。有一次周末在医院守着她时,看到太太睡着了,就快速的去洗手间一趟。。没想到才不一下子,回来的时候,看到太太床上的白布已染上大片红色血迹,还有满地的一堆血迹。。清洁工人快速地正要清理。。我既刻阻止他,要问明原因,但是他们只是说医生刚才在抽血。我问护士,那一位医生在太太睡时抽血,可以的吗?但他们却说不出是哪一位实习医生在太太睡觉时抽她的血。。而且是差错的抽血。可以这样子的吗?因为护士长(太太哥哥的教友。。)发现针管 筒插错!我既气愤又无奈。过后向化疗医生反映,她说,周末见习医生比较多。。我也不解,刚刚同一天才抽了数次血,在短短时间内又再抽?其回答是,不同医生,不同的要求!我的天啊!太太每次抽血都痛哭的声音声(因为她已近乎瘦得皮包骨。),喊叫我的声音,直到到现在还不绝于耳,挥之不去。
。。

大粒的药丸原本是应该放在水杯里待溶解才喝的,但没人告知,可怜的她好不容易才吞了下去,那时她吞咽已困难。。天啊!

那时太太的脚已肿得像大象一般,奄奄一息,插管围绕,病床墙头明挂着不能下床走动!但见习医生却要她下床做运动。。

太太在化疗的期间,换了好多次化疗药,我不是医生,所以医生问我要不要换这种药或者想要那一种药,我全然不敢堪自决定。

最后换了价钱不菲的口服药,终导致鼻子流血,口吐血痰。。即刻停止服用。
化疗医生来探病房时,太太那时还清醒,但眼睛是已看不到。听到医生高跟皮鞋的脚步声音,她马上喊:“安静!” 年轻的化疗女医生对我说:“ 惨了。。你太太一定骂我,因为我给她的药太强了。。”

几天后,太太肾功能衰败,不治逝世。。骨灰呈深黄色,据说是药太强烈。

在医院的其中一些日子,由于扩散到肺,有5天需要每一天去另一间医院电疗胸部,开始时由救伤车载送,躺在担架上,太太辛苦得总是吐个不停,我要求用载人的车,回应说,载人的车没有氧气设备,不能。最后还是一位印籍护士把氧气筒带来用载人的车辆护送,才松了口气。。

以上点点滴滴,不是想追究些什么责任问题,也不是针对些什么,医生们有苦衷是我们无法了解的,我们知道。太太现在已过世了,再追究也是没用,因为在医院也是太多好人好事,一些医生,护士,在太太行最后的人生旅程时,都给了她很大的爱心。。我只是想到太太对护士长所说的,好的事要赞扬,不好的也是要提出改进。。

如果医院方面有任何在协调或者伸缩性上需要改进的地方,不时捡讨改进,是为重要啊!千万不能等闲视之,行政细节上的差错,是人命关天的啊!

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